13 and still counting.....

Somethings are just meant to happen!

It was not planned,it happened so randomly and very unexpectedly!Its been ages that I have had a great girls night out with my closest and bestest childhood friends.Since we moved on from school,everyone has moved ahead to their different callings in life and we are left with no time to catch up on!

Years have gone by and a lot has changed in everyones lives.Some bitterness,few arguments and misunderstandings may be something that may have kept us apart!But still somewhere deep down in all our hearts,we have missed each other A LOT! 

So tonight was the most unexpectedly amazing night that I had; because I caught up with all of my closest friends!We had been planning to catch up sooner or later,but everytime it just didn't happen,but last night,it just sprung out of the blue!And volia-you have six ladies dressed carelessly to have a night out on the town!We ate,we danced,we couldn't care less for all that was behind us and we also couldn't wait for what lay ahead of us!We have been through school and college now with our share of good,bad days,embarassments,mistakes,crushes and heartbreaks alike.

At times like these,it strikes to me,that we have grown and evolved with time from being stupid,senseless apes to meaningful humans and I mean that literally :D.The first time we all ever met was in school,we were only three of us;we were naive,immature,stupid and that is probably why we had pure unadulterated fun,without any worries!When we were about to finish school,we used to ask each other,where will be from now on?What will I be doing and will I ever see as much of you again?And like all girls who live in their fairytales,we swore that we would never lose touch and here we are today!We did maintain touch,a little bit here and there but on the whole 'I still get to see my besties!' isn't that maintaining the promise pretty well!!Hell,yeah it is! Because I know how much it has taken to stay in touch and it has been all worth it!

In bad times,we have all shaken and trembled bad,but had it not been for each other,we would have never stood up this strong back again!

Today everyone's mostly working or finishing off their last leg of studying,tomorrow for all you may know we maybe attending and planning one of the bestie's wedding!Time just flies...Till yesterday we were a bunch of stupid girls thinking about grades,the first crushes and chocolates for all we cared.We moved on to knowing the selfish world,being arrogant and selfish at times to knowing love,commitment and to having a companion and very soon it will be marriage on our agenda!

Starting on every stage of my life I had them if not always besides me but definitely 'always in reach' and looking back on every phase of life somethings have always stayed and that is what 'friends' are!You can fight with them,hate them,love them,abuse them,care for them,trouble them but they will always be there waiting to see what more have you got to offer!

It has been seven years since we moved on to making new friends,searching new avenues to explore and realizing that the first friends you ever make are the last ones,whom you may ever forget!There are going to be yet many more years,many more stages which we may or may not be able to handle but friends will always be there to tell you that "I am here"And so I can say-friendship is truly that one wonder drug which can make you feel high for the rest of your life!

This post goes out to all my 'besties,BFFS,or 3am friends' whatever you may call them; I have just one word for them all-MINE!We have still a lot to explore and explode too!!Hence thirteen years and still counting!! 

XOXOXO